Popular Nigerian writer and social media influencer Solomon Buchi has urged Ifeluv, the fiancée of singer Oluwadolarz, to move on from the relationship following an infidelity scandal. Buchi’s advice comes in response to a viral video showing Oluwadolarz’s mother pleading with Ifeluv not to leave her son.
Daily Mentor recalls that Ifeluv recently announced her breakup with Oluwadolarz, who is also the father of her child, citing allegations of infidelity and financial irresponsibility. During a TikTok live session, Oluwadolarz’s mother emotionally appealed to Ifeluv to forgive her son and give him another chance.
Reacting to the situation in a post on X (formerly Twitter), Solomon Buchi advised Ifeluv to disregard the mother’s plea and prioritize her well-being. He emphasized that while marriage is not without challenges, it should not begin with insurmountable issues like repeated infidelity and financial instability.
Buchi wrote:
“Dear Ife, while marriage is not a bed of roses, it is wrong to get into it as a bed of thorns. If indeed everything you have said about Oluwadolarz is true—his cheating spree and lack of financial stability—let him go.
It’s one thing for a man to cheat once and make it up to you, but it is hellish and characteristic of him if he keeps sleeping with everything in a skirt. Ignore his mother’s plea because she is from a different generation. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. You sound like a very educated girl; save yourself a lifetime of misery.”
Buchi’s comments highlight the generational differences in perspectives on relationships and marriage, urging Ifeluv to make a decision that aligns with her values and future happiness. The influencer’s advice has sparked conversations online, with many weighing in on the importance of self-respect and emotional well-being in relationships.
As the drama continues to unfold, Ifeluv’s decision remains a topic of public interest, with many supporting her choice to prioritize her peace and happiness.
