Grammy-winning singer Tems has candidly shared her dating non-negotiables, ruling out unfriendly or uncurious partners during a December 8, 2025, Complex UK interview. The "Love Me Jeje" star, embracing her "lover girl" identity, stressed that lacking genuine interest or warmth is an instant red flag, advising an immediate end to such connections. She emphasized self-love and caution from past experiences, prioritizing emotional curiosity and friendship as relationship foundations.
Tems clarified she's "not waiting for anything," grounded in personal growth amid rumors linking her to UK rapper Dave over their "Raindance" collaboration. Her manifesto highlights intelligence, humor, and mutual exploration, dismissing superficial ties for deeper bonds. Fans praised her vulnerability, seeing it as a blueprint for healthy romance in celebrity circles.
This revelation aligns with Tems' evolving narrative from her 2025 Love Is A Kingdom EP exploring love's facets to red carpet poise at GQ awards positioning her as both artist and empowered woman redefining standards.